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In this week’s topstories: Apple officially announces WWDC 2021, a massive Apple Arcade expansion, iOS 14.5 changes, and more. Read on for all of this week’s top Apple stories.
iOS 14.5 beta 6 changes
Apple this week released the sixth developer and public betas of iOS 14.5. The update continues to introduce new features and improvements, this time related to Siri and battery heath.
With iOS 14.5 beta 6, Apple has added two new Siri voices from which users can choose. iOS will also no longer default to a female voice starting with this update. Instead, users will be able to pick which voice they’d like to use.
iOS 14.5 beta 6 also introduces a new battery recalibration tool for iPhone 11, iPhone 11 Pro, and IPhone 11 Pro Max. This means that users will be able to recalibrate their battery if they believe things like battery health data and maximum capacity are incorrect.
Be sure to check out our full video right here for a look at everything new in iOS 14.5 beta 6.
Apple Arcade expansion
On Friday, Apple announced a massive expansion for its Apple Arcade game subscription service. The company is now offering two new categories of games: Timeless Classics and App Store Greats.
As part of this expansion, Apple has added more than 30 new titles to Apple Arcade, including hit iOS hits like Threes!, Cut the Rope, and Fruit Ninja, as well as classics including Good Sudoku and Chess.
Finally, Apple has officially set the dates for WWDC 2021. This year, the annual Worldwide Developers Conference will be held as a digital event from June 7 through June 11.
At the event, we expect Apple to introduce iOS 15, watchOS 8, macOS 12, and more. Apple says that WWDC 2021 “will offer unique insight into the future of iOS, iPadOS, macOS, watchOS, and tvOS.”
Apple says that WWDC 2021 will include keynote and State of the Union events, online sessions, 1:1 labs for developers, and new ways for developers to interact with Apple engineers and designers.
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[00:00:00] Zac Hall: Hey, how are you this week?\n
[00:00:01] Rahul Matta: I'm good. How are you?\u00a0\n
A guy named Paul\n
[00:00:04] Zac Hall: I'm I'm getting by I want to talk first about a person named Paul, who? Yeah. Hey Paul. You know, we, we talked the, in the episode previously about the star kind of our introduction and and how we were connected by I believe ha. A nine to five Mac happy hour listener who kind of heard my discussion and you know, looking for a feature that would replace Nike run club to give you personal records, personal best from runs and specific distances.\n
[00:00:39] And they turned me on to your app tempo and that's how we got in touch. And that was a while ago. And I actually, I went, I went back after we were talking to like search for the tweet because I remembered it was a tweet that somebody had sent it. That was, that was the recommendation. And I couldn't find it.\n
[00:00:55] And I just figured it all, you know, things, things go away. But you had an email this week. Tell me about your email. You had.\u00a0\n
[00:01:02] Rahul Matta: Yeah. So I got an email from Paul because I I had a request out during our last session to please reach out. And Paul was like, Hey, here's this screenshot off? What I had mentioned to Zach and you know, he's like, I'm super glad you guys were able to connect and what you're doing right now.\n
[00:01:19] And I was like, wow, this is amazing. You know, they'll power off like the internet and podcasting, I guess. And I, I do want to say thank you, Paul. And he has a feature request that I'll be talking about in the future episodes. And that's something that I'm starting to work on. I think it's something that.\n
[00:01:38] A lot of folks have requested and it's just been sitting on the list because of all the other reasons that that things that I have been shipping with temple, but this, this feature you know, I think this is the best reason to prioritize it all the way to the top. So It's happening now, it's in the works.\n
[00:01:55] Zac Hall: That is awesome. I can't wait to hear more about it. And I think Paul took his account private, which is why I didn't see the tweet anymore. But that makes perfect sense. It's like, Oh my gosh. That's so cool. Cause it was from so many years ago from 2021 and that is just too cool. Absolutely. So the next thing this week is I want to check on, on our, on our health homework that we introduced last week.\n
Last week's health homework\n
[00:02:19] So on the onset of these six episodes and watch time, you challenged me in the first week to run three different times for five minutes or more. And I didn't. Quite meet that challenge in the first episode. So that was again the homework for the next next week. And then my, my assignment to you was to complete an Apple fitness plus time to walk exercise, which is a walking workout from the Apple watch, which is mixed with storytelling and music from someone who Apple selects.\n
[00:02:51] So I want to begin with you. I think that might be the easiest to do. Did you complete your homework and if so, how did it go?\u00a0\n
[00:02:57] Rahul Matta: I absolutely completed my homework and it went really well overall. I really enjoyed it. I listened to the. To the audio by ouzo. Duba. She is an actress from orange is the new black series on Netflix.\n
[00:03:13]I haven't watched it. I, now it's on my list to go watch it, but essentially you know, she talked about her story from being stage artists to all the way to now being you know and Emmy award winner and you know, it was, to me, the entire walk was generally it, I was surprised by the fact that.\n
[00:03:37]It, it felt so intimate in the sense that it, it almost felt like I was walking with the speaker. I think the combination of having the AirPods on with noise cancellation and the way the recording has been done and the background noises My guess is the timing of my walk. I did it like late in the evening.\n
[00:03:57] So it was like, you know, almost like, you know starting to get dark by the time I finished it was dark and it might have been that at the same time, because all the background noises, there were a few times when I kind of turned around and was like, is there a really somebody like around me or did I just hear somebody?\n
[00:04:11] And it was just like, you know, just from the audio background. Yeah. So that was good. It, it reminded me of the times back in the day when I used to live in Chicago and commute to work, take the train and whatnot. And my walks from the train station to home or work were a good way to like, just.\n
[00:04:30] You know, wind down and wrap up the day. So it just kind of felt like that. And I've done that on and off here, just working from home now, but It's with the last year and pandemic, it's been very difficult to get out, you know, after a certain time, during the day because of kids being home all the time on that.\n
[00:04:48] I mean, I can go out with my kids, but it's very different than when you're just going on a walk by yourself. Right. I did have a technical issue, man. I started the walk. Because I had, so, you know, like I said, last time I don't really run with any music or podcasts or anything. So usually there, you know, I don't have my AirPods on.\n
[00:05:10] So as soon as I put them on, I was like, Oh, I need to, you know, this feels very awkward. And as I started the walk, it was very loud and I couldn't turn the volume down. So I had to stop the walk. And then go look for the volume, turning the crown didn't change anything. So I had to manually go into the now playing app on the watch and turn it down to actually fix that.\n
[00:05:37] So that was kind of like really weird because I would imagine my guess is this is probably just a bug, because that seems like a very bad interaction. But overall, it was just fantastic. The fo the first five minutes were like I was walking in my running shoes, so my feet were like, what's going on here?\n
[00:05:56] You know, like I was like, should I be running? But as soon as I got into it, you know, after the first five minutes it felt really calming and really relaxing. I mean, especially because it had just rained in, so it was like, just. Drizzling. And so just, just to right. Set up for that date, it just felt right.\n
[00:06:17] So yeah. Overall I enjoyed it. Will I do it again? Yes, but cool. I would say the one feature request I would make here for this time to walk thing is After first three days of after three days of doing it, I had it on my watch, but it irked me that it takes like the very first spot when you launch the workout app on the watch.\n
[00:06:42] And I'm just not used to it. You know, like when I'm walking out the door six o'clock in the morning and just trying to like, just start my run. I don't want to like scroll up or down. It's just like, you know, my muscle memory is to say, you know, whatever I have to do to, you know, my fingers know like, okay, this is how I'm going to start to run.\n
[00:07:00] And now I had to like scroll up a little bit and I re I removed it from my list of workouts. So I'll have to like, you know, go back and forth every time I do this workout to maintain it. But yeah, Heidi\u00a0\n
[00:07:12] Zac Hall: recommended. That makes sense. I did one, I did the Dolly Parton episode just to test the feature out and then found that I really enjoyed it.\n
[00:07:21]I haven't done one since then. And that was when it was first released about a month ago. But I'll talk about today. I'm kind of. In a, in a mode where I just want to be active all the time and not be stagnant. And I've already done the gym today. And I, I thought about, well, maybe I'll go back in the evening and do the gym again.\n
[00:07:40] But I think, I think variety is also very important and making. You know, being active, sustainable. And so what I have in mind for after we finished recording today is to go to a bridge and beach that I've spent a lot of time running and do a time to walk exercise there. Just because, you know, I want to be in motion, but I don't necessarily want to.\n
[00:08:04] You know, do anything too intense because I've already exercised today and I don't want to burn out. And so time to walk is, is I think a pretty good fit for that. I also don't want to, I kind of, it's kind of a mix between like bringing a podcast or music and it's, it's a little bit of both in that it's.\n
[00:08:23] It's spoken word and then in some music involved as well. So I'm looking forward to having that in my rotation, but I totally understand what you mean about it being right up top because they're promoting the heck out of it right now as it's brand new. Right. And, and that means putting that at the top of the list.\n
[00:08:39] Rahul Matta: Yeah. Yeah. I I, I mean, I completely get it, but at the end of the day, you know, app it's Apple, they, they know better than this in terms of like doing the right thing. So I, I would imagine over time it would just you know, find its place on how we use it versus\u00a0\n
[00:08:55] Zac Hall: in the only plan to have like maybe a half.\n
Zac's life update\n
[00:08:59] Well, maybe, maybe a dozen or so, maybe 10 of these in total, and then they're not going to have any more until, you know, they decide to do it again. So at that point it really shouldn't be at the top. I mean, that's, that's a very good point. So for me as listeners will know, I postponed last week's episode and took some personal time both from, from wash time and from happy hour.\n
[00:09:21] And it took a couple of personal days on Thursday and Friday last week to sort of just focus on, on things happening in life. And and I will say I did not run first week that I was challenged to run for five minutes or more for three, three, three different times. Initially really it was that I was just putting it off and I knew I only had to do it at only at least three times.\n
[00:09:44] And so that meant I could do like Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday but life got in the way come Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, and all of a sudden those days that I put it off. Four weren't available in the same way. And, and so that was kind of a lesson all on its own. Do things when you can do them, not when you think you might be able to do them.\n
[00:10:02] And and then the next, the week after, so this last week that we're in, I, I did I certainly did complete the exercise and running for five minutes or more on three different days. I've also kind of. Decided, I mean, we're, we're going to talk about some of our high level fitness goals later in this episode, but I've also kind of decided that maybe, well, certainly that, that right now in the condition that I'm in physically.\n
[00:10:28] It's running is, is in the rotation because I, I can't ever just go for a walk and be content. I always like, like you did, when you first started that walk with your running shoes on, you felt like, Oh, should you, so you start running. I always feel that even if I tell myself I don't want to run, you know, all start a walk and it's like this could, this could be more fun if I ride, you know, it's more intense and, and just the whole feeling is a bit different.\n
[00:10:52]And so I think running will always be a part of my rotation, but for the short term, While I'm not necessarily training for anything. And I don't have a goal that I'm trying to reach. I think that running is just one part of a full week exercise. Most of it, what, I've, what I've found I did take, I took a walk the other day and I was just kind of, you know, in my head thinking and I didn't even bring my watch or anything.\n
[00:11:23] I just went out for a walk on my own and And just kind of walked into my legs, started to burn and tingle a little bit, you know, from, from, from moving and then turned around. And it was, it was you know, it was, it was probably a mile and a half walk. But after that I was kind of, that kind, kinda like woke me up and then I.\n
[00:11:42] Felt motivated to go to the gym and, you know, wear a mask and bring you know, a towel and clean everything off really well. But I was just kind of, sort of in a place where I needed sort of a, a people environment. And that was the thing that kind of lifted my spirits. And so, yeah. I did, I did run on the treadmill and that affirmed again, that running outdoors is just so much easier for me than like running on a treadmill because when I run outside for the, for the five minutes, I can run without stopping.\n
[00:12:15] I can run a mile without stopping. Like that's not a problem on the treadmill though. I feel the need to like slow it down and walk and catch my breath. And like, I can't, I don't know. It's my, I think I'm overdoing it. Or maybe it's just easier outside than on a treadmill, but\u00a0\n
[00:12:33] Rahul Matta: it, it does make sense. I always find it to be easier to, I mean, I don't have a treadmill at home.\n
[00:12:40]Primarily for the reason that, you know I, I just find it a boring and the, because it's, it's, it just seems like a different kind of mechanical movement than running outside. Like if you, if you look at the pace chart for any run done outside what you would notice is the pace never stays exactly the same.\n
[00:13:03] And the fact that the treadmill just imposes that on you. It's actually over time, once you have, you know, Gotten your legs back, you're running legs back in terms of like, just being able to like keep running. It's good for me, a certain level of consistency, you can actually get on a treadmill and you can maintain a certain level of pace.\n
[00:13:25] And then it, you know, it just works well. But if you're just starting It's it's actually probably harder.\u00a0\n
[00:13:32]Zac Hall: And I would even make sense, which is discouraging.\u00a0\n
[00:13:35] Rahul Matta: I mean, I, the way you do that then is like, you know I think it's coach Galloway Jeff Galloway he he his running pattern is like very well-known it's essentially like, I mean, depending on you just find a rhythm off, like run for so many minutes and then take a minute.\n
[00:13:52] Break or whatever time you need. But it's not like, you know, exact same intervals. It's more like, you know, run for 10 minutes, take a minute off and just walk. And it's actually something that he has marathon programs for that kind of stuff. And people run like crazy fast marathons. Based on that trend.\n
[00:14:09] Like they, they actually do that even do you know the train for that? And some people even do, I don't know. I think some people do it during the races too. So it's, there, there is value to like taking short breaks within your runs. And if you're on a treadmill, especially just starting and trying to get back into the rhythm, this might be, you know, worth it to try, like just run for five minutes and then.\n
[00:14:31] You know, do it for like, you know, walk for 30 seconds or something like that. Whatever feels comfortable.\u00a0\n
[00:14:37] Zac Hall: That makes, that makes a lot of sense. The time that I had Peloton, I don't know how much it cost, like $3,000 treadmill to review and then send back on loan. They have the best interface I've, I've seen for changing your pace because it's like, Oh, it's like a wheel that you roll up and down.\n
[00:14:54] And instead of, you know, buttons that you mash or a speed that you input and it just felt really natural. Like if you want to slow down a little bit, you just do kind of a gesture over the wheel and it slows you down. And it's almost like an in sync with your motion. Then if you want to speed up, you do the same thing and kind of the bigger the motion, the more you go.\n
[00:15:11]But, but again, that is an exorbitantly expensive treadmill. And. And I wish that interface was copied by everybody that makes treadmills of all of all prices. But other than that, the elliptical is, is really where I started getting in shape for the first time back around 2017. 20, well, 2016, I would say.\n
[00:15:30]And that, that's a thing where it's low friction enough and it, it doesn't beat you up, but you do, you know, I, I end it by sweating a lot. And my heart rate is consistently up and I burn calories and I'm happy with it. And I can do different things. I can listen to music. I can listen to a podcast.\n
[00:15:50] I can, I can watch a video or something and pass the time by. And, and that, that's what I found the most enjoyment just forgetting cardio this past week is, is doing that. So, so, so mixing in some runs, but at least doing a half an hour of elliptical when When I exercise and that's been, that's been, that's been really good for me.\n
[00:16:11] I think that's, that's what I did exclusively. Like every single day, whenever I, I first lost a bunch of weight. And then when I lost the weight, I was then kind of getting in deeper and running was not easy, but it was much more approachable than it is today for me. And I think that that's kind of the path I'm going to go back on as is focused a lot on elliptical.\n
[00:16:34]You know, eating better and, and also, you know, mixing in things like I've, I've certainly felt that my arms aren't as work as they should be, or as, as they have in the past. So I've been doing, you know, different, different weights. And, and that's. That's something that I'm lacking in. And so at the end of the day, if I, if I feel sore, you know, in my arms, I feel better than then.\n
[00:16:55] I just kind of feel, you know, like they're just kind of flailing around. And I definitely feel like over the last, you know, several months I've lost some strength that I used to have. And so yeah, and, and it was, again, all of this is. Comes from your, your homework challenge of, you know, try to make a habit out of running and it's become I'll, I'll put on my running shoes, you know, to, to, to get out and getting that mindset.\n
[00:17:20] And then from there now I'm already in the mode of, you know, movement. And what else do I want to do? And I think now that it's not going to be a hard habit to, to build because there's more motivation there that I had before. To, to sort of self-improve and everything. So it's, it's so far so good.\n
[00:17:38] That's great\u00a0\n
[00:17:38] Rahul Matta: to hear. I just have one tiny comment and maybe a question, like in terms of consistency, do you try to do it at the same time during the day, or does it just vary a bit based on your school? Yeah, so I, I,\u00a0\n
[00:17:54] Zac Hall: so. A long time ago. First thing in the morning was the best time for me because I was motivated by closing my Apple watch rings and then having them close for the whole day.\n
[00:18:05]What I've found myself getting into the rhythm of now is after I finished working, then the next thing I do is I go exercise and I think that's. Extremely sustainable based on my schedule and my kids' schedules. And, you know, when basically I, if I finished working at 4:00 PM central, then I can go and I'll, I'll, I'll have between four, four o'clock and like five 30, five 45 to pick up the kids.\n
[00:18:38] And that gives me a lot of flexibility and, and spending a full hour in the gym or something, you know, and And, and, and so that that's, that's kind of where I'm successful is if I can make something that's that's I can do over and over again as a routine versus I found some time here. I found some time there.\n
[00:18:59]I, I do enjoy first thing in the morning. And actually today I had an opportunity to go to the gym earlier than later because I needed a, to run an errand and I happened to be right, right by the gym. And so it was all right. And I, and again, I like having done something earlier in the day than later.\n
[00:19:15] But also, I don't, I don't mind the chance to sleep in and then jump into work. And then as soon as I'm done working, use the exercise as a way to decompress, I think that's all right. And, and that's so, so I think that, that that's, the answer really is, is after work, not too late in the day, but, but, you know, early evening.\n
[00:19:37] Rahul Matta: Yeah. I think I would say. Consistency might help here a little bit, at least to form a habit. That's just my personal experience, but you're still starting. So find the rhythm. You might even find consistency across different days. Right? So Mondays could be first thing in the morning and Tuesdays could be like, you know, the last thing during the day.\n
[00:19:59]Yeah. And that's fine, but it's just like teaching error. You know, you're subconsciously like your body also gets used to that habit and that format offline, this is when things happen. And this is when nutrition happens. This has been sleep happens which kind of helps overall in the long run\u00a0\n
[00:20:23] Zac Hall: too.\n
[00:20:24] Yeah, exactly. Exactly. So I look back, I look forward to not reporting back that I've had challenges, but that I've had successes in the coming weeks. And, and sharing that here really quickly. I also wanted to talk a bit about kind of what me down last week and kind of where my head space has been because I'm feeling better now and it's easier to talk about on the upswing then than, you know, when you're in the pets.\n
[00:20:46]But basically. You know, I, I was very open. And when I started doing this podcast, watch times talk about mental health. Yeah. And, and some specific situations I was going through that I found challenging and where the watch and health and fitness were helpful. And. And last August, I made the decision to move to Orlando and focus heavily on uncovering space and you know, being close to NASA and Kennedy space center.\n
[00:21:15] And I made a ton of friends there and more friends that I've made. Before, you know, living in Mississippi, you know, and it's and way faster. And so I was very happy there. But, but my, but my kids were here in Mississippi and it's an eight hour drive and it was all kind of the, the reaction to getting divorced after five years and being with the person that I was with for 10 years.\n
[00:21:40] And You know, I, I think it was me trying to make the best of a, kind of a rotten situation that I was in. And and it served me well, you know, some of my goals in going there were to focus on my health and fitness and self-improvement, and I did not make time for that. And those four months that I was there.\n
[00:21:56]But I made the decision I'd say last, last week too. Began the process of moving back so that I could see my kids more consistently than I was. It's something that whenever I, I, my, my, my, my stepdaughter she's lived with me since she was 10 months old. And she's, she goes to her dad's every other weekend, but for most of the time she she's with us and.\n
[00:22:20] Then when my son was born, you know, there were issues in the marriage before that and after that, but it was something that I, I just couldn't conceive the, the notion of not seeing my son every single day. And so we stayed together and try it again and then took some time apart and then got back together again.\n
[00:22:36] And you know, ultimately it didn't, didn't go as planned, but it kinda, it kind of hit me that. You know, in the beginning, I could never see myself giving good time with my kids. And then ultimately what I was doing was putting a really big barrier between myself and my kids and that I wasn't happy with with how much I was seeing them.\n
[00:22:53]And so I've clearly began the process of moving back to Mississippi and it'll be done in just a couple of weeks. So I'll be kind of back and forth in the meantime. But also I kind of got in my head that. You know, I want to unwind this distancing that I've done to the point where, you know, I want to fight for my marriage and I want the family to be together in the same house that I, that I, I don't accept that, you know, there's when my son, he's three that there's this 15 years of like, you know, parenting separately and apart.\n
[00:23:25]And just this really determined about that and, and almost like It it's almost like, you know, I had this big idea and it didn't, it didn't matter. I was just going to go and do it. And of course the other person is, is, you know, half of the equation. And there's sort of just no interest in, in doing that right now or in the future.\n
[00:23:45] And you know, she's happily happy in a, in a new relationship and that's been difficult for me to kind of come around on and it's. Taking a lot of counsel with friends and, and, and, you know, self-thought, and, and, and time spent exercising. When that helps me so much for the endorphins and everything, you just feel better than, than doing nothing.\n
[00:24:07]To kind of realize, you know, my, my part in a lot of things and the, the costs of me going away for those four months, you know, which was going to be much longer than that. And, and, and that I can't just walk back in and say, you know, let's, let's put everything back together again. So I've slowly had to transition from that big lofty goal I had of kind of fixing everything and, and, and thinking that because I learned lessons and, and, you know, a Mueller and wiser now, Things can just fall into place again that it's not entirely up to me.\n
[00:24:38] And so I've had to accept that this is still where I want to be, you know, with my kids so I can have them every other week. And you know, that, that being available, being here and, and, and accessible is. Is all that's, you know, I nothing's owed to me and that I, you know, I I'm supposed to be here and be available.\n
[00:25:01] And so there have already been situations in the last week where I've been helpful just in being, being present and being, you know, the next town over instead of eight hours away. But it has been a big, like punch in the gut to, to, to go from four months of trying to kind of get over, you know, a five-year marriage to, you know, getting the idea in my head that I can, I can put this back together.\n
[00:25:26] And it's obvious that it's worth it, that it, that it's meant to be this way. And then if I work hard enough that I can have this goal and then realizing that it's, I'm only half of the equation and the other half of, you know, the, the other side of it as a whole other person with their own life. And so so it's, it's been, I would say it's been very hard this past week, too.\n
[00:25:47] Kind of realign my expectations and decide, you know, kind of realize that the house that you bought together, isn't, isn't my home anymore. And you know, that there's this whole other life that has to take place because we're not together anymore. And I've slowly been in it kind of been accepting it and putting the pieces together and that.\n
[00:26:06] You know, what is my identity on my own here? And, you know, the easy things, where will I live? How soon? Well, he moved there and, and then, and then kind of finding the things that, that brought me joy in the time when we had a part before, which is, you know, Definitely running and racing. I think when those things come back and full swing, I will be positioned to participate in a way I'm proud of, and in the meantime, like I mentioned before that, that beach and that bridge, that's where I learned to run in the first place.\n
[00:26:37] Because the bridge has like a really steep incline and then a really steep decline. Well, not quite as steep as the incline and then a little bit of flat, and then you reverse it and see you've got a long way of inclined and then a really steep decline. And it's tough enough for me that it was never, it's never about speed.\n
[00:26:53] It's more endurance and just finishing it. And then when I run on the beach, it's all flat. So, so I've found that in coming back though, that location is going to be very special to me because. It's it's in a lot of ways where I found myself before. And, and honestly, the first time I got in shape, you know, I wanted to lose weight and feel better about myself was in a patch in the marriage.\n
[00:27:17] That was one of the big kind of milestones toward it, not working out together. And so I, I really wanted to. You know, focused on myself and improve myself, whether it be for me or for, you know, me and the marriage and for a while, it was for the marriage and, and, you know, for the time being it's, it's evident that it's going to be for me.\n
[00:27:37]But I, I so recall that there were a lot of times where I felt just like I was a better parent, more active and more alert because I was active every day. It gave myself that time. So something I mentioned to you before we started recording, is that. I find that it's easier to focus on health and fitness in a period where I'm trying to work out of workout when we out of a problem than when I'm perfectly content.\n
[00:27:59] And, you know, I'm, I'm not trying to work out myself out of a problem. So it's, it's been a fun one, but you know, not, not really, but it will, it will.\u00a0\n
[00:28:09] Rahul Matta: Yeah. Yeah. I mean, there, there is a lot that. Is happening in your life right now. And I mean, I'm here for you. I I mean, thank you for being this open and sharing I, I would just say that, you know, as a dad, It just feels right to me that what do you have done here to move closer to your kids is, is a great thing.\n
[00:28:39] I think it matters. You needed your time away. You took that time and now you're back to be closer to your kid, I think. Yeah, I think that's I respect that and I, I appreciate that. Thank you for doing that. And staying active. As kids grow just becomes more and more important because you want to stay active with them.\n
[00:29:01] You want to do things with them. And you have your memories but you're going to build more memories and, you know, have more stories to tell and show things around to your kids and you know, have more good times together. So, yeah. Yeah.\u00a0\n
[00:29:19] Zac Hall: Yeah, I will say it was looking through photos on my phone and having gaps and, and and, and measure of, of weeks and not.\n
[00:29:28] You know, no gap at all. And that was kind of, kind of a big deal for me. And, and so it's, it's a, it's a new chapter, you know, back to an old chapter, but in a different way. And I'm so happy that I've got, you know, friends like you and healthy habits to, to, to track, to kind of get me through. So it'll be all right.\n
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This week, Benjamin and Chance discuss the latest changes in iOS 14.5 beta 2 including shareable lyrics in Apple Music, as well as ponder the fate of the iPhone 12 mini and assess how much Apple services advertising and marketing is hurting the Apple software experience.\n
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